The In Crowd
( This post was written for my youth ministry blog and also appears there. ) Rejection. It’s such a harsh word isn’t it? And yet we all experience it at some point in our lives. In movies and television shows, it has often been portrayed as something overcome with a “feel good” ending. Finally, the ugly kid triumphs over the beauty queen and is accepted by his peers. Or maybe the shy girl, who has never been asked out because people make fun of her, winds up getting treated like a princess by the most sought after guy. The actual experience of rejection is rarely like the movies. It’s the reason even a game of dodgeball can be depressing. After all, who wants to be last one picked for a team? It definitely stinks of rejection. It is what we fear and what drives us towards The In Crowd. The In Crowd usually stands for the cool people, those who are popular and favored by their peers. At the same time, rejection may alienate us from other people....